"To tell the truth" is a game show originally broadcasted in the 1950’s. Three challengers are introduced, all claiming to be the central character. The announcer typically asks the challengers, "What is your name, please?" Each challenger then states, "My name is “John Doe.” Then the host reads aloud about John Doe. Sometimes they picked the right John Doe and sometimes not. Those challengers were not under oath to tell the truth.
During the last thirty plus years I have seen many people inquiring about divorce and represented many. Articles written on divorce give many reasons, like lack of commitment, arguing, infidelity, marrying to young, lack of equality in the relationship, and abuse. The main reason has been finances. When people do not have money, they wind up seeking divorce.